Subtle Entertainment?

I love hindi movies. Cant say the same about Hindi serials. But both have something in common. they lack something that English movies and serials have. And I have firgured it out. SUBTLETY!! Most Hindi serials have to spell everything out...twice!!! they are in your face and most often crude. They treat the audience as if they are 5 year olds and in this day and age, even 5 year olds would be smarter. Undercurrent emotions are almost unknown. I wonder how a 'good' person is so blind not to see the other person making all kinds of faces which clearly indicate his/her 'evilness'. There is rarely any subtext nor any link to previous episodes. Characters change behaviour without any reason and while i know that the very idea of soaps is twists and turns without explanation and without reason just to keep the story going but there has to be some coherence. I have caught some episodes of American soaps and yes, they change plots, spouses, stories, behaviour with unpredictable or rather predictable regularity but atleast there is an appearance of coherence. Comedies are far behind. They all lack punchlines and have to resort to crudeness to get any laughs.
While I enjoy the sheer madness of hindi movies without any regard to why anything happens, I realised that very few Hindi movies have conversation between the actors. I liked Jab We Met precisely because there was a real connection between these two characters independent of the fact that since they were the main characters, they had to fall in love. The dialogue between Shah Rukh Khan and Vinay Pathak in Rab ne is another example. But there are very few movies which express emotions without having to resort to over the top drama. And that can be found in the English movies... atleast in many of them that I have seen.
I wish that our movies could imbibe that.. atleast in part..